07-07-2020, 01:45 PM
Some folk need to have a day off with that shit
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07-07-2020, 01:45 PM
Some folk need to have a day off with that shit
07-07-2020, 01:46 PM
Someone in the comments mentions Johnny Depp, who's had his name dragged through the mud for years due to false domestic abuse allegations.
"You’ll do plums"
07-07-2020, 01:54 PM
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07-07-2020, 03:13 PM
Mate of mine (male) is just coming out of an abusive marriage. Not physical, but really severe mental abuse and gaslighting. Can happen to anyone; my mate's ex wouldn't say boo to a ghost, but the knots she tied him in man
07-07-2020, 03:14 PM
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07-07-2020, 04:53 PM
Re the asylum seekers being housed in hostels, this is a good summary.
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07-07-2020, 04:54 PM
(07-07-2020, 03:13 PM)Neaven Staismith Wrote: Mate of mine (male) is just coming out of an abusive marriage. Not physical, but really severe mental abuse and gaslighting. Can happen to anyone; my mate's ex wouldn't say boo to a ghost, but the knots she tied him in man That's part of it - the face to everyone else which is turned off behind the scenes. It's absolutely horrific to see, and often the victim will push away those who try to offer help.
07-07-2020, 05:05 PM
That's grim reading Walt, sickening the way these people are treated for having the audacity to try and save their own lives :
As for women domestic abusers, always riles me hearing folk brushing that shit off as not possible or not really abuse. Know first hand about that as well :
07-07-2020, 05:06 PM
(Edited 07-07-2020, 05:07 PM by Nive la France.)
(07-07-2020, 04:54 PM)Walter Boycechak Wrote: That's part of it - the face to everyone else which is turned off behind the scenes. It's absolutely horrific to see, and often the victim will push away those who try to offer help. Absolutely. Nothing was ever wrong, and there was always an excuse for whatever was going on that meant he couldn't come and see us. It was clear as day to us that he wasn't happy but there's only so much you can do when they put up this impenetrable barrier. He's still feeling the psychological effects now, over two years later.
07-07-2020, 05:29 PM
Walt how long has Mears had the contract? Are these hotels a temporary thing while their asylum applications are processed or do folk end up in them longer term. Absolute night and day from my experience at work when we had Syrian refugees come in
07-07-2020, 06:08 PM
Mears only recently took it over from SERCO, would say middle of last year. In theory the hostels should be a really short term place until proper accommodation sorted out.
With the Syrians You've mentioned, sounds like they were already recognised as refugees, so that's a different situation. Normally once dispersed to which city they will be in, by home office, they would be put into a flat, usually a 1 or 2 bed, and usually shared. Not much single occupancy and that was often a bedsit. I think Mears are blatantly cutting corners here to save cash under cover of the pandemic + lockdown. The reason is so bad is they (home office, in conjunction with Mears) have withDrawn the cash support of £36 a week and have obviously paid some paltry sum to these shit holes to provide food, and they have come up with that inedible crap.
07-07-2020, 06:36 PM
(07-07-2020, 06:08 PM)Walter Boycechak Wrote: Mears only recently took it over from SERCO, would say middle of last year. In theory the hostels should be a really short term place until proper accommodation sorted out. Yeah with the Syrians we had more families where I work. They got put in our temporary accommodation so fully furnished with all white goods. That's why I was so surprised when I heard about them all being cooped up in hotels, hadn't considered the difference between asylum seekers and refugees
07-07-2020, 06:37 PM
Outsourcing companies are a fucking cancer on late capitalist society.
07-07-2020, 07:18 PM
07-07-2020, 09:26 PM
https://www.edinburghnews.scotsman.com/e...ls-2904682
Complaints of institutional racism at Auggies. |
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